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Extreme Frugalness. Tight, cheap, stingy? You know what I’m talking about and personally, I love it.

fru·gal
- Practicing or marked by economy, as in the expenditure of money or the use of material resources.

ex·treme
- Most remote in any direction; outermost or farthest: the extreme edge of the field.
- Being in or attaining the greatest or highest degree; very intense:

Growing up in a middle class family, I was raised to live frugally and within your means. My parents provided us with everything that we could possibly need, though not always with everything we wanted. Our kids today compared to how my husband and I grew up are completely spoiled.

Sometimes these lessons were good and sometimes these lessons were very painful. As I’m thinking of my kids and what they will need for their Spring sports, I’m vividly remembering a painful lesson about cleats. If my parents are reading this, I know you meant well and were living within your means, which is extremely smart. Also, I wasn’t traumatized for life – in fact, it made me work harder!

It was 5th or 6th grade in the middle 80s. I had signed up for soccer on a co-ed team. All the coolest of the cool kids were on the team. Most were children of doctors and lawyers and real estate agents. Not me and I was one of just a few girls on the team. Since this was my first year to play soccer, my mom didn’t think I needed to get new cleats. I could just wear her softball cleats that were a size too large to play soccer. Of course, that would work! Of course, mom !

Obviously, they did work just as intended. However, it wasn’t what I wanted. I remember being absolutely mortified to go to the soccer field in those cleats. I was mad, embarrassed, and extremely determined. Determined to not let the cleats define my ability. But really, who was I kidding, I thought these horrendous bangs were awesome!

It could be my imagination or just a extremely dramatic memory of the experience but I remember being stared at and possibly laughed at by my teammates. I’m sure you all remember how mean and cruel kids that age could be – especially boys. I’m sure I was the same at some point as well. For some reason, I also remember wearing shorts that were way too short. I know they weren’t Umbro! Once I got over that initial practice of wearing those ugly, too large, softball cleats.

I came across this picture and I don’t think I was paranoid or maybe he just liked those short shorts!

Did this stop me from playing soccer that year? No, I finished the season. I continued to play. I also knew then that I had to work to get the things I wanted. My parents gave us all they could and more than we needed even if they were on a budget but kids always want more. They always want the best, the newest, the most expensive even if they don’t need it. It feels so much better when you earn things instead of having them given to you undeservingly.

While these experiences encouraged me to work harder to earn money for the things I wanted, I find myself giving into my kids way too often. I want them to also feel that little pain of embarrassment so they will work harder while not completely traumatizing them for life!

Do you have a memory like this that you remember that is specific in your mind?

You know you have a confession to make. To what extremes have you gone to save a buck this week or in the past?

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Extreme Frugalness. Tight, cheap, stingy? You know what I’m talking about and personally, I love it.

fru·gal
- Practicing or marked by economy, as in the expenditure of money or the use of material resources.

ex·treme
- Most remote in any direction; outermost or farthest: the extreme edge of the field.
- Being in or attaining the greatest or highest degree; very intense:

Yep, I keep every single envelope I receive. I pay most bills online or will make one giant payment for a series of invoices. So we have quite a few leftover in our professional and personal stash.

So what to do with these?

I use them for sending notes to teachers, employees, mailing out other bills, etc!

Any other ideas for me as I’m getting quite a stack the more we pay bills online!

Now it’s your turn.

You know you have a confession to make. To what extremes have you gone to save a buck this week or in the past?

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Extreme Frugalness. Tight, cheap, stingy? You know what I’m talking about and personally, I love it.

fru·gal
- Practicing or marked by economy, as in the expenditure of money or the use of material resources.

ex·treme
- Most remote in any direction; outermost or farthest: the extreme edge of the field.
- Being in or attaining the greatest or highest degree; very intense:

After reading the article on the WSJ.com,  “Hard Times Turns Coupon Clipping Into the Newest Extreme Sport,” I was amused. I’m nowhere near as extreme as some of these super savers in the article Jane4Girls, who is shown with her $1,000 grocery saving trip – but I stockpile things we need when there is a good sale.

What do you think?

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Extreme Frugalness. Tight, cheap, stingy? You know what I’m talking about and personally, I love it.

fru·gal
- Practicing or marked by economy, as in the expenditure of money or the use of material resources.

ex·treme
- Most remote in any direction; outermost or farthest: the extreme edge of the field.
- Being in or attaining the greatest or highest degree; very intense:

No, I couldn’t see what was right in front of my face.

The first step to any problem, is admitting you even have a problem.

No, my chair was fine. There is nothing wrong with this chair.

Don’t talk about my precious chair. The precious chair we’ve had for 8 years that we only spent $39.99.

Don’t diss it. Just don’t do.

It serves its purpose.

Okay, maybe there is a few holes in it but it works.

NOTHING WRONG WITH MY CHAIR. IT DOESN’T LIKE TO BE TALKED ABOUT.

Is this REALLY my chair?

I seriously just couldn’t see it until my mom confronted me directly about this chair.

It has since been relieved of its duties and replaced with a luxurious yet obnoxious chair.

Now it’s your turn.

You know you have a confession to make. To what extremes have you gone to save a buck this week or in the past?

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Extreme Frugalness. Tight, cheap, stingy? You know what I’m talking about and personally, I love it.

fru·gal
- Practicing or marked by economy, as in the expenditure of money or the use of material resources.

ex·treme
- Most remote in any direction; outermost or farthest: the extreme edge of the field.
- Being in or attaining the greatest or highest degree; very intense:

As you may know, I was recently at a Blogging Conference called Blissdom. At this conference, I had quite the opportunity to come across many, many frugal bloggers. We shared stories, tips, and laughs. As well as bringing in our water/water bottles, snacks (purchased by coupons of course!), using stranger’s condiment packages left on their trays (did that really happen?), and taking advantage of all the included meals and snacks included in our conference package.

At the same time the Blissdom Conference was going on, the Tea Party Convention was going on right next door. Lovely people but I heard rumors they kept drifting over to our Expo Hall and taking advantage of our treats! Frugal or Cheap?

My confession. Every day I would take the little bottles of shampoo, conditioner, and soaps in my bathroom so the housekeeping staff would put more out. These tiny little bottles make nice little returning home gifts for my kids or donations to shelters at no additional cost to me.My frugal friends tell me this is perfectly acceptable to them, but to the rest of the world?

Now it’s your turn.

You know you have a confession to make. To what extremes have you gone to save a buck this week or in the past?

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Extreme Frugalness. Tight, cheap, stingy? You know what I’m talking about and personally, I love it.

fru·gal
- Practicing or marked by economy, as in the expenditure of money or the use of material resources.

ex·treme
- Most remote in any direction; outermost or farthest: the extreme edge of the field.
- Being in or attaining the greatest or highest degree; very intense:

Okay, so you know you have a confession to make. To what extremes have you gone to save a buck this week or in the past?

I’ll start.

When I was younger, way back in the day before I even know what it meant to be frugal. I was frugal by complete accident. When I was a young lassie living at home, when I would run out of toothpaste, instead of buying more, I would cut the tube in half and “scoop” out the toothpaste on the inside with my toothbrush.

Now that I look back, germs were probably having a crazy party in that tube of toothpaste. It does still make practical sense as you know there is always quite a bit of toothpaste still left in the tube. Probably enough for a trial size tube. Currently, I have quite a stockpile of toothpaste so it isn’t necessary but I may start that one back up again.

Now it’s your turn.

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